About San Diego Bad Intentions

San Diego Bad Intentions is a 21+ femdom-centered kink community focused on intentional play, mutual respect, and authentic power exchange. We create spaces where people can connect, explore, and engage in kink within a consent-forward, community-driven environment.

Our Story

Founded in 2019 by Miss Melody Pond, Bad Intentions began as a single play party created to address a gap in San Diego’s kink scene: the need for a femme-led space that centered consent, communication, and care without performance or spectacle.

In 2021, Princess Nina joined as co-owner and co-host, helping shape Bad Intentions into an established series. Together with Goddess Colette, the team continues to steward the community with intention and consistency.

Our Philosophy

Power exchange is rooted in trust.
Consent is active, ongoing, and mutual.
There is no single way to express dominance or submission.
Community care is essential to sustainable play spaces.

Behind the Scenes

Atmospheric event lighting — The atmosphere of Bad Intentions — deliberate, grounded, and intentional.

Each event—from casual munches to full play parties—is designed to feel immersive while remaining grounded and respectful. Connection, communication, and presence are central to every gathering.

Our Values

21+ only, with consent and safety prioritized.
Respect, discretion, and accountability are expected.
Photography requires explicit permission.
Events are substance-free unless otherwise stated.
All genders, orientations, and experience levels are welcome.

Connect With Us

📧 SDBadIntentions@protonmail.com 🐘 FetLife: SD Bad Intentions 📸 Instagram: @sdbadintentions